Weed-Friendly Date Ideas from Cannabis Experts
For getting high on love
It’s no secret that weed is becoming more of an acceptable social activity. Plus, with shows like High Maintenance and Broad City and fancy weed dinners popping up, weed is finally getting some mainstream love.
According to OkCupid data, nearly 33% of OkCupid users said that their ideal partner is someone who smokes weed regularly, while over 56% are looking for someone who smokes occasionally—meaning a significant chunk of daters are okay with occasionally smokin’ the reefer. That’s why we’ve assembled a team of marijuana enthusiasts and activists to share their best baked date recommendations.
Idea: See a Comedy Show
Expert: Zac Maas, 2014’s Sexiest Male Budtender, Denver, CO
Every major city has great (cheap) comedy shows almost every night of the week. You’ve already got the giggles — so go to a place where people won’t stare you down for laughing, you freaks. Most of these shows are in great local bars, breweries, and restaurants, so your cures for cottonmouth and the munchies are close at hand. If you’re not the best conversationalist (or you’re just too high), don’t worry! Talking is not allowed, and after the date, you can chat about the show. If it’s the first date, what your date laughs at can also give you a peek into their personality.
Strain Suggestion: Any Haze or Diesel Cross. These strains tend to give you energy and help stimulate creativity. No one wants a lethargic date.
Ingestion Method: Smoke a joint before you head in, but don’t be afraid to put it out after a few hits.
Idea: Attend a Weed Event
Expert: Nikki Allen Poe, Weed Activist, Philadelphia, PA
Cannabis is a great uniter and social tool. You’d be surprised by how many people actually use it—yet, because of legal reasons, there’s not the same open social culture as there is with alcohol. Over the past four or five years, however, weed activist groups have put together a myriad of social gatherings like pop-up weed gardens, cannabis dinners, and other public events and parties. Not only do these make for a great way for you to connect with your date, but also a great opportunity to connect with your local cannabis community.
Strain Suggestion: Sativa is very mind-driven and great for being out and meeting people.
Ingestion Method: Weed is all about sharing, so at these events there’s a little bit of everything to go around.
Idea: Check Out an Art Installation
Expert: Nikki Black, Weed Enthusiast, Cancer Survivor & Arthritis Sufferer, Los Angeles, CA
Watching movies while you’re stoney baloney is a ton of fun, but sometimes paying attention to the plot can be a bit difficult; that’s why art installations will feed your visual cravings and leave room for discussion, and probably some giggling, without requiring you to stay focused on a storyline. Plus, it adds just the right amount of sophistication to your romantic outing.
Strain Suggestion: Blue Dream is a true fan favorite and a great strain for discussions and taking in masterpieces.
Ingestion Method: Vape it—outside the gallery, in the bathroom, or on the streets of your city! It’s discreet, won’t get you too stoned, and super easy to transport.
Idea: Paint the Town Green
Expert: Alex Grubard, Host of Weeding Out The Stoned, Philadelphia, PA
The most important part of dating is doing things together as a couple, so try getting ripped at home, then hitting your hometown to discover the fun as a pair. Bring along a few joints and see a live music or comedy show, split some munchies from a local eatery, and then walk through a region of your town with pretty lights — but beware of your local badminton courts: according to OkCupid data, “playing badminton” ranked #11 in the top 25 OkCupid profile words associated with people who have never smoked marijuana.
Strain Suggestion: Lemon Kush is both refreshing and playful. It goes down easy and won’t keep you inside your house the entire night binge-watching It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia.
Ingestion Method: Grab a couple J-birds for mobility, quick execution, and efficiency. Where there’s smoke, you’re higher.
Idea: Pre-roll Your Joint and Don’t Go to the Zoo
Expert: Jeff C, Delivery Guy, Toronto, Ontario
Be smart and pre-roll all the joints you’ll need before the date. In fact, roll more than you need. That way you never have to slow down and scramble to find a bathroom roll in. It’s always better to have too many than to ever run out. Also, take the time to find out what your date’s tolerance and strain preferences are and prepare accordingly. Be cool and buy a small sack for the date and maybe even one to give your date to take home.
Just, for the love of God, don’t go to the zoo. You’re high and probably more ready to empathize with the poor creatures who will look sadder than you have ever noticed before.
Ingestion Method: Stick to smoking and vaping over edibles; it’s easier to pace yourself, especially if either of you doesn’t have a lot of edibles experience. If you do choose edibles, start with a low dose and go slow. Everyone will experience edibles differently in regards to onset, effects, and duration.
Strain Suggestion: Sweet Skunk is one of my favorite strains, and would be great for a 420 date night. It tastes like a delicious fruit cocktail, and provides happy uplifting effects that will have you giggling in no time.
Written and researched by Matthew Schmid.
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